Two Men With A View,
FITZGEREL@aol.com (FITZGEREL@aol.com)
Wed, 14 Oct 1998 00:30:31 EDT
A Story...........
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same
hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in
his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain
the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to
the room's only window.
The other man had to spend all his time flat
on his back. The men talked for hours on end.
They spoke of their wives and families, their
homes, their jobs, their involvement in the
military service, where they had been on
vacation. And every afternoon when the man in
the bed by the window could sit up, he would
pass the time by describing to his roommate
all the things he could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for
those one-hour periods where his world would be
broadened and enlivened by all the activity and
color of the world outside. The window overlooked
a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played
on the water while children sailed their model
boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst
flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old
trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of
the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in
exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the
room would close his eyes and imagine the
picturesque scene. One warm afternoon the man by
the window described a parade passing by. Although
the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see
it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window
portrayed it with descriptive words.
Then unexpectedly, a sinister thought entered
his mind. Why should the other man alone experience
all the pleasures of seeing everything while he
himself never got to see anything? It didn't seem
fair.
At first thought the man felt ashamed. But as the
days passed and he missed seeing more sights, his
envy eroded into resentment and soon turned him
our. He began to brood and he found himself unable
to sleep. He should be by that window - that thought,
and only that thought now controlled his life.
Late one night as he lay staring at the ceiling,
the man by the window began to cough. He was
choking on the fluid in his lungs. The other man
watched in the dimly lit room as the struggling
man by the window groped for the button to call
for help. Listening from across the room he never
moved, never pushed his own button which would
have brought the nurse running in. In less than
five minutes the coughing and choking stopped,
along with that the sound of breathing. Now there
was only silence-deathly silence.
The following morning the day nurse arrived to
bring water for their baths. When she found the
lifeless body of the man by the window, she was
saddened and called the hospital attendants to
take it away. As soon as it seemed appropriate,
the other man asked if he could be moved next
to the window. The nurse was happy to make the
switch, and after making sure he was comfortable,
she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped
himself up on one elbow to take his first look at
the world outside. Finally, he would have the joy
of seeing it all himself. He strained to slowly
turn to look out the window beside the bed.
It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled
his deceased roommate who had described such
wonderful things outside this window. The nurse
responded that the man was blind and could not even
see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted
to encourage you."
Epilogue. . . .
You can interpret the story in any way
you like. But one moral stands out: There
is tremendous happiness in making others happy,
despite our own situations. Shared grief is
half the sorrow, but happiness when shared,
is doubled. If you want to feel rich, just
count all of the things you have that
money can't buy.
"Today is the greatest gift you can have, that's why its called the
present."
"Fame is a vapor, popularity is an accident, and riches take wings. There
is
only one thing that endures,
and that is character "