Feminine Mystique and Apostolic Sisters
"Matthew Shaw" (mshaw@teleplex.bsu.edu)
Tue, 20 Oct 1998 15:50:26 -0500
[Sis. Yohnk]:
>I think feminisim may have been originally good because it gave women a
>voice and some strength. The new feminism rob's women of the right to be
>a woman. It robs us of our right to be soft and emotional and intuitive
>and romantic. We need dignity and strength and how much better off we
>would all be if our men would really lead.
[Matthew]:
You make some very valid points on this issue, and I agree wholeheartedly
that men must *first* take responsibility for the home, for leadership in
example, prayer, faithfulness, stewardship, holiness, etc. If the husband
is unwilling, naturally, the wife must assume a more prominent role than I
believe God would will.
Of course, the Bible is full of strong women who exercised a great deal of
godly independence: Esther, Deborah, Ruth, etc. I am in no way trying to
rob women of their contribution to society or the Church. There is a
critical place for women in both, but I believe that role has been
misunderstood and has been reinterpreted to the point that we can no longer
make gender-specific distinctions.
I agree with you totally about the misinterpretation of submission as well.
It is not productive to think of submission as the breaking of the human
will, a despotic hierarchy in the home, Church, job, etc. I think the
principles of submission must be based on love, respect and proper order.
You've made some very good observations, and I thank you for being a godly
woman and an example to so many Apostolic sisters.
Blessings.
Bro. Matthew